I had a friend that I no longer speak to, because of some arguments and stuff. As I look through all our old conversations and pictures, I miss him. How do I not miss him?
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Loosing a friend can be very hard, and trying to get them back is worse. Sometimes, people hold a grudge, (will not forgive you for a long time). Instead of looking back at your memories, you can make more memories, with your heart, talk to him and explain you're sorry, and why. Make sure your apology is not too cliche, or he will not think you mean it. On the other side, maybe you and your friend were not meant to be friends? Let it be and realise, you will always find other friends. Stop looking back at the past, its like old fashion, but more serious. Stop looking at what you did and focus on what he did, was he really a good friend? Instead of wishing he would forgive you, think of what he is thinking, does he deserve a second chance? Would my best friend do that? Is it normal for friends to do that, or was he bullying me and I did not notice. Don't think about your friend too much, and realise how many other people there are in the world, realise how lucky you are to have your other friends; some people have no friends at all, and are constantly lonely! Maybe he will learn a lesson. Just remember to give your friend time and you both need time apart to think things over, it may take a while to heal your friendship again.