Okay, so I’m 23 and my friend is 22. Recently over Instagram, I got into a heated argument with this 16 year old girl who told my best friend to stop being friends with me after another major event I accidentally caused myself. The bully (16), then came to Instagram and posted some stuff about me and my friend harassing her. We were only talking about how rude she was for telling my best friend to not be friends with me anymore. I apologized to my bestie because I had kept it a secret for years and then I spilled it out in the open. Me and my bestie are all good now, we’re still friends for life, but now this girl just doesn’t want to shut her mouth about me and my bestie. Can you please explain to me how we can handle this situation and get this girl off our backs for once? We don’t need this drama from her.
How to get someone to stop harassing me and my friend online?
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- 3+ months ago by falconerb...
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- girl, friend, over, year, online, girls, old, friends, years, best friend, instagram
Added 3+ months ago:
And this girl posted this stuff today (January 29, 2022) just to get us in trouble. She even threatened to call the police on us because we’re talking about her behavior behind her back.
She’s autistic and has this intermittent disorder and always uses the intermittent disorder excuse on everyone who crosses with her. I’m in special needs as my bestie is too. We both respect people with autism but this is one of those things where we don’t really care that she has autism. Her behavior is inappropriate and she’s making a fool of herself, trying to act like the top dog. She’s trying to scare us but we’re not scared. She should be the scared one here after she gets her karma.
Added 3+ months ago:
Thank you so much for your help!
Answers (2)
You need to ask yourself why you think an abusive person can be a friend. Abusive people actually can't be a friend, because they don't respect or care about people. This is obvious, so please see it and move on. Thinking you can change this person and make them in to what you want, is not going to work. Do you enjoy abuse?