Hey guys,I was just wondering if you had any tips on getting over an ex.
The problem is that we have been broken up for about 6-7 months and I still can't stop thinking about her and missing her.
I've tried everything and still can't seem to get over her.
And I can't go blocking her on social media or anything like that because we're still quite good friends. So if you have any tips for me that would be greatly appreciated!
How to get over a relationship?
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- 3+ months ago by chrohn
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- broken, over, tip, relationship, problem, month, wondering, help, relationships
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you just have to except things as they are because the minute you don't she will take the friendship away cause she will blame her self for everything you just have to think of things as to the point of you have a good friend if you really do and you would not want to lose that friend ship so you kinda got to think of things like that
Well, the thing is, stop thinking about it. The more you think about it the more you will miss her, it's just like reverse psychology. You say "I don't miss her" but then since you think of her that much your brain subconsciously makes you go "I don't miss her" to "I miss her" and making her harder to forget. I would say to get over it, have more fun. And I think the problem is that, you haven't accepted yet that you are now just friends. You are probably thinking "I still have hope". That's why you can't get over it. So first start accepting that you and her is over. And then start to have bonding more with friends/family, don't try to meet new girls yet until you've accepted it completely that you and her will just be friends from now on.
If none of the above actually worked, well, I think you can first think of why did you break up? Were you the fault? If not then is it hers? Or is it third party? Or is it no one's fault? If its no one's fault then why break up? What do I like about her? What do I dislike about her? Did we have fun? Did we have tough times? etc. And after thinking that many, I think you would be ready to move on by just simply...
Having fun. Don't think about anything else, if she's beside you in a park with friends, then you and her are just friends nothing else.. And what do friends do? Have fun!
If still nothing well, just tell her your feelings, if it was your fault say sorry, you'll be a better person, etc, etc. Sooo, good luck getting over her ^_^ Just have fun remember that.
Don't take this too far just check with your self will you be able to stop thinking about her even as you already tried and cant get over her.then i would suggest to resolve your problem. i dont think you can stop thinking about her check with yourself will you be able to live happily without her in your life,don't take it too far