sometimes i feel like im insecure and i literally cant talk about it to anybody else so thats why i came here. i struggle with my appearance while i say im comfortable with myself to others because they see me as a strong person. pls dont say some bs and pls dont try to ask what parts im insecure. and dont sound cheesy please.
How to get more confident?
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- 3+ months ago by jillandhum
- Topics:
- talk, feel, struggle, appearance, insecure
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I used the 'fake it till you make it' method to become confident. You gotta act confident, and think confident. Like, what would a confident person do in this situation? And, how would I hold myself if I were confident? Play the confident version of yourself until you BECOME it. (: Hopefully it will help you, and always just remember, that you can do anything you put your mind to. If you act confident and never break that 'script' of confidence you're playing, soon you will become confident. Good luck.
Do something you're good at to make you feel good for starters, have a healthy lifestyle, it will make you feel refreshed to begin with, you won't be getting anything good out of pizza and chips.
if you are so insecure about your appearance, do something to change it.
Get a new hairstyle, dye it.
Try out different styles of clothes
loose some weight maybe?
start using make-up to enhance your features (I don't really recommend this though)