okay so I put around 3 tsps of coconut oil in my hair and left it in for a couple hours - I have really thick and long hair so I thought it was suitable and seemed to follow the guidelines I had read up online etc. after washing it with shampoo 6 times and conditioner at least 4 times its it still stuck in there. I am washing it with warm and hot water and it just won t budge, I m supposed to be going to a meal in a couple of hours and I m just getting stressed out now I ve already had to cancel meeting some friends this afternoon pls pls help me iM SITTING HERE ALL MAd WITH AN OILY SCALP I will literally marry the person who helps me get this out :-((((