I think I may have led this guy on.. I didn't realize it at the time... I thought we were just talking. He asked me for my number at school and so later we texted for a couple hours an he was asking me a lot of questions and complimenting me a lot and stuff. I kind of liked this guy, too. But, now that we might actually have a relationship, I've rethought this whole thing and I realized that I don't really like him at all. He was my friend before all of this and I want to find a way to hint to him that I don't really like him and am not really looking for a relationship right now. I do know many ways to do this but, i don't know many ways to do it to where we would still be friends. I also don't want it to be awkward. How am I supposed to hint this to him? Any suggestions?
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I suggest and I guess it depends on how you feel about being honest or blunt, that instead of hinting, you just look him in the eyes and tell him that you are only friends. It might sting but it's like ripping off a bandaid. You can tell him that you don't like him like that but he might ask why...that's even more awkward because it might be looks...so I would suggest you tell him you aren't interested in having a boyfriend/dating right now...as long as you don't date someone the next day, that should work. But with guys, well, we like honesty, we appreciate it. It doesn't have to be mean but this is your comfort too, not just his. I hope that helps!
I don't get it.