My boyfriends exgirlfriend been using his credit cards and she been spending over 30.000 GBP. They been separated 4 years ago but he still paying that debts. He doesn't want to judge her. Now we have money difficulities (my boyfriend lost a job ) and we have 2 kids . But we still paying that debts. What can I do? Every day I'm more angry abou that :(!
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First of all... call the credit card company and cancel the card she's using.
If he watched her spend all that money and didn't shut off the card somethings up,
maybe he spent most of it.
But some people will do anything to not call a toll free number and wait for assistance.
Lots of people are breaking up now that the economy is down.
You have children together so maybe you should not rock the boat.
Instead find ways he can enjoy the kids have fun with them and entertain them without spending money.
All credit card was on his name. I been thinking to speek with her ant to push her to pay that debts. But I don't think is real. She never been working in her live, using goverment money, on benefits...He not let me to do anything to sort this problem, just want to forget it..
If the card is shut off and no more charges can occur forget it
"You can't get blood from a stone"
she's broke
If the card is in his name, she is not responsible for the debt... except out of the goodness of her heart. If he's out of work and broke, maybe he can get her to give him some money. Don't be rude to her, or she'll never pay anything back.