Frineds i have a similar problem but quite different.
i like a girl and we are become friend from last 20 days and within 20 days beside the girl whole college and the father of that girl know i love her daughter. lots of bluff in college. when the girl hear about it from his father she don't talk with me. i try to talk with her and become frd again but she doesn't talk. i wait for a while with the believe everything will be alright with passing of time. but nothing change. everytime i try to talk with her, she ignore me badly. whole college including faculty makes joke on this. what can i do ? how can i know her feeling ? if she dont love me then how can i start or stay as friendship?
How to do to impress her or how can I know her feelings?
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- 3+ months ago by deepak007
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- girl, friend, love, feeling, different, impression, problem, day
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You should just wait until she starts talking to you first. It could be many things maybe she doesn't feel the same way and wants to think about things, maybe her family doesn't want her to see you. You've only known her a short time right? You saying you love her so quick might have scared her. Don't stress so much if she decides she wants to be friends she will talk to you eventually.
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but i wait for her response but she didn't then i try to talk her.during frdship day, she agree to be frd but suddenly after frdship day she starts ignore. At frdship day in front of my few frd she accept my frdship and say, she didn't angry on me but after that she ignore me and denay our frdship while one of our frd asking her.
while silently i help her like "mail notes during exam" she accept that but never say thanks to me. i don't know whats her feeling? it keep on confusing me badly everyday my frds laugh on me and make joke of me on that topic. i want to overcome it and want to know that what she feel? can you help me?
So she says she’ll be your friend again but denies it in front of others. I understand why you would be confused. I have to be honest; if I had a friend and they treated me that way denying a friendship; I would end the friendship. As a woman myself I would never do that to someone I truly cared about as a friend. If I didn’t want the friendship anymore I would make it clear especially if it was someone I know liked me before. It’s hard to know her feelings but from my point of view she doesn’t seem to truly value you as a friend and probably isn’t interested in a relationship at all. I think you need to stop talking to her for awhile like a few months and see if she says anything; if not just move on. If someone really wants you in their life they will make time and talk to you; if they don’t the answer is clear. Sometimes you have to let go of people and things will be better. Maybe you’re missing the opportunity of finding someone who will truly care about you because you’re waiting on her. Honestly the way she is acting is hurtful and immature. You should tell your friends their attitudes about the situation are hurtful too; if they are good friends they’ll stop making jokes if not their not good friends either. I have had to let go of friendships before and it’s not easy but definitely was a good decision in the long run. You shouldn’t let another person have so much control over your life and emotions. Be happy and good luck.
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i think you are right and i believe i should move on without try to talk to her. i wait for a long now i have to forget her..
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but actually her father comes to know about it from me. i said her father that,"i like her daughter".at that time i have no other option without saying the truth. i am hiving her fathers number but contacting her father might not be a good idea. and i believe i am slight hurry, i have to give time but now the that insident has been 1 year but the situation is same. our frd circle not stop to make joke and the leactures word on my personal life hurt me so much but still i love her and want to know her feeling. can you help me?
2 days later i call her from a new number (she dont recieve call from my no. and i never disturb her by calling), she respond me very positively & say,"don't angry on me" but don't talk longer and cut the call by saying, "i am in home". thats her last word but after that she don't call back or don't say nothing. i want to know her feeling if she dont loves me then i want to be with her as a good frd but how can i do that? please say me