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I know everyone deals with neurosis occasionally, but how do you handle the irrational part of it. For example: one of my friends called and said they needed to talk, I immediately assumed they were upset with me, then found out they were talking to me about something completely different about someone else.
This gives me unnecessary stress.
well you have to listen to the whole situation as it is presented to you most would say i have a issue i'm trying to deal with could you help me or i have something i need to talk to someone about i would rather talk to you about it you need to tell your friend he needs to go into detail a little more about the problem so i don't think its me that your talking about i automatically wouldn't think its me you have a problem with this would help the problem or the way its presented to you would ease your mind not hard
