How to cope with pregnancy alone?

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I wont lie; it can suck! But it can also be a blessing. In my case I was better off not having the father around because he was irresponsible and a cheater and because of him I almost lost my son. It was hard raising 2 kids at the age of 17, but not impossible. First find a really great support group. There are others in ur possition that rely and count on each other to help each other out. U will find groups such as these, especially local groups, will be beneficial when it comes to daycare, errands, questions, etc... Also look at mentoring groups. Theres alot of mother(such as myself) who have traveled that road and now would like to help others who are begining the travel themselves do it with as much guidance and support possible. Work out a birth plan with ur neighbors, family, whom ever ull be in contact with so everyone is on the same page. Matter of fact, ur best plan of action is to make sure u have a plan of action with everything. The more u have worked out, the less likely it spiral out of control. I dont know how far along u are but get involved with ur community, volunteer at a shelter, church, school. These are great places to find people who not only need u but u may need as well. Ask questions and dont ever be affraid to ask questions. All answers are good answer whether u use them or not. Its better to have it and not need it then to need it and not have it. As a mom, u have the right to raise ur baby as u see fit so listen to what others say and then take from it what works best for u and ur baby. Also start now interviewing babysitters. See if other recomend someone or post an add at a school or in the paper. Find someone who is willing to get to know u before the baby is born. This could help termendously. U will need some 'u' time, even if its only for an hour. Building trust with someone now will help set ur mind at ease later. If u ever want to talk, im here for u.

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