It is a very complicated story. He was compelled to get engaged to a girl his parents want. His parents pressured him, emotionally blackmailed him. He is in love with me and we have been together almost 3 years. He is ready to marry me, but secretly. We are Muslims I am from USA and he is from India, so he is telling me that he will have to marry her later. He does not want to marry her, but does not have courage at all to go against his parents wishes. How can we solve the problem? I feel guilty for the fact he is cheating the girl he is engaged to in India. If he decides to break, how can he do it peacefully with her and not make her breakdown?? He loves me to death and wants to be with me. His parents know me as his bestfriend and likes me, but will never accept me as their daughter-in-law. In fact I have some facial defects along with a hearing loss. However, his love for me is genuine, I even tested him so many times and he really does love me so much. He never think about the way I look, but my heart only. So HOW CAN I GET MY LOVER MUSTER UP THE COURAGE TO CONVINCE OR GO AGAINST HIS PARENTS (AND BREAK OFF HIS ENGAGEMENT)? I want him anyhow and I trust on his love for me 100 percent. We cannot live without each other. I absolutely don't want him marrying again in the future for his parents. I desperately need help with my situation.
(Please don't go negative on my boyfriend, he is totally helpless due to family pressure, society, etc. I don't blame him. I would have left him, but the problem is no one else can possibly love me like he does because of my face. He is just only one person in the world for me. He cares for me so much. We met unexpectedly and never thought we would fall in love with each other. It is hard to believe I know, but it is dream come true for me. He is not a fraud. The girl should understand and be fine because she can get any other guy, but I cannot.)
