i am very upset i seriously need your help........
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What help do you want from strangers? You apparently have no awareness of a how a lady feels, so there is no way we can explain anything to you. It might depend on what country and what religion. In the USA you would be considered incompetent if you don't know before you ask whether a woman wants to marry you.
I kinda know what you're feeling except mine is 4 years older and probably doesn't like me like that. If you're in high school I'd wait until you were out of high school/college because it's less awkward for the two of you. Do you know what I mean? If you can't wait that long then you don't really LOVE her and it's vice versa; if she can't wait for you then she doesn't really LOVE you. You get what I mean? Also, a 20 yr old and 23 yr old doesn't sound bad; but in high school everyone is like "a freshman and a junior tsk tsk". I know in my high school, a freshman and a senior together are looked down upon (that's my personal problem). TBH I've decided to wait and hopeful she'll wait for me. However for you, you've already confessed. So maybe "Hey, I really like you and I'm willing to wait; will you wait for me?" or something. Lol idk I'm no expert I can't even confess to the person I like so take my advice or leave it (or you know, get creative and change it up a bit).
She loves me but the reason is our age difference and i know the reason is valid :(