I have fantasized about my mother for the longest time. I'm 18 still living at home while I attend school. I started to think this way since I was about 14 when I first started to really notice her in a different way. Lately things have taken a different route than usual. She's a single mom at the moment. About 2 months ago she's been more affectionate towards me; giving me long hugs, budding up to me on the couch, and hanging around with me for longer periods of time, etc. but a week ago she barged in while I was in the shower and rummaged through the cabinet. I watched through the curtain as she pulled out her dildo. She looked in the mirror and gave me a smile then left. I didn't know how to approach the occurrence... Then two days ago we sat on the couch and watched one of her shows, she asks "it's getting hot in here mind if I take off this shirt?" I said do what you want, so she takes it off along with her pants just sitting there in her bra and to my surprise a thong. I try not to stare much because it was becoming a little awkward in my situation. Then she goes to bed after awhile... So my question i what do I do?...
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Not judging you. We all have our weird fantasies. But this isn't natural. I suggest you push it out of your mind because once that line is crossed, you can't go back. You lose your mother and she loses her son. I think its perfectly normal for a single mother to hug her son and love on him. But its not ok that she undressed infront of you. She must be going through a mental crisis. If you give her what she thinks she wants, she is going to feel like the biggest piece of shit for the rest of her life. Don't do that to yourselves. She is your mother. You will never be able to brig your wife and kids around her without either of you having painful flashbacks. I really think this is something that will haunt you forever. If you must, just masterbate to the thought but please don't act on it :(
It's called incest. Mother and son bonds are very close, but this is something that neither of you should engage in. You obviously are bothered by her behavior or you wouldn't be asking here on this topic.
You need to tell her that you love her, but you are not comfortable with her behavior. If that doesn't work, you should consider moving out.
absolutely not non of what you said was neither helpful nor right this whole situation is wrong shes either emotionally hurt but either way her actions are inappropriate and regardless of who made the first move its not right