I've had a friend for a few years she's been kinda off and on with the friendship meaning if she's in a relationship with a man she wants nothing to do with me that means hanging out or talking on the phone she just recently went through a really difficult time in her life going through a divorce after a 3 year marriage she lost her home she just recently purchased before she married and I was by her side 100 percent when ever she needed me I made sure I was available well I just went through the same thing she was exempt I confronted her about it and she had so many excuses so I just stopped calling her cause it really upset me I thought about it for months now so Ive been trying to reach out she's ignored several phone calls and text msgs we follow each other on instagram and I see how she's made new friends and have been partying it up with them all she talked about me to her friends and talked about her friends to me I really loved her as a friend and it's bothering me that she's ignoring me she never likes none of my pics on IG and I'm alway liking hers it just hurts like he'll cause I was her support person when it came to men,food,money and shelter what do I do now I feel desperate
How should I react to such behavior it's bothering should I call it quits or keep reaching out?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by princessb...
- Topics:
- friendship
Responses (1)
I'm sorry.. i don't know the best way to deal with these types of things. I've always been the supporter for my friends as well. which I've learned that if you do all the supporting it isn't really a true friendship.. I've been through a similar situation once before. and when i was at the end of my rope i wrote a letter. it said every single thing i was thinking and wanted to say to her. some of it was a little harsh. some of it was sad. some parts were happy. but i made sure everything was heartfelt. if it goes good or bad after that is up to your friend.. hope everything works out
Thsnks so much I've done that via email she just ignored it
i would just give it some time. i know its hard to do though.
Thanks so much for the response I've done that via email she
Ignored it