I am a single parent. I have an 10 yr old son. I about to graduate from school. I will have a certificate in Phlebotomy. Let me just say moving to NY is just an idea at this point. I am looking for a new start in another state. NY has always seemed very interesting so I am just exploring the option of moving there in the future. 1-2 yrs maybe. I know it will be very expensive with rent groceries utilities transportation etc. If I decide to move there it will be just me and my son. I am not a party girl i dont drink at all and if my son can't go with me I dont usually dont go. So am I being realistic with my possible plans?