How long should it take to break up?

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Need to break up but I need some help what is the best way to do it. Is it a 15 second  conversation or an hour. How do I leave if she's crying. We've been together 18 months. I'm hot happy anymore and we've talk but she's still happy so she's going to be a mess. If anyone can help I'd greatly appreciate it. Thank you

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Short answer is do it as quickly as possible. Long answer is why? You haven't given enough information to give an informed answer. Why do you want to break up? If she's still happy after 18 months, why aren't you?

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The best way is to do it in person at a private spot. Just gently lay it on her. Say you are sorry. Bring ice cream with you. When she starts crying leave the ice cream, and walk out or away.

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What are you talking about? Breaking up is not a ceremony; it's enough to just not be home, or don't answer the phone. If you insist on a ceremony, a good one is "Look, it's over. Now get lost."

How long should it take to break up?

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