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How I forget the person who I really really love after break up also?
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fell in love .. I thought he likes me but i now doubt it.. It really hurts me to accept that we cant be together. so teach me ways to forget him.. i see him everyday because he is my classmate. i really want to forget him.. like when he is flirting with somebody i want to feel nothing.. i dont want to be jealous . I really need to erase this stupid feeling i have for him. i can't forget him ever in my life. i just want to do suicide but can't do that also as what will feel my family members after it... desperately want to die..!!!
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Anita, I've been where you are. And seeing them every day hurts, I know. Here's the hard part, but listen, ok? The short answer is: the only thing that will make it better is time. (but read the rest)
I CAN tell you right now with what you wrote about him that he's hurting too, but how he's dealing with it is to flirt with other girls. Because guys deal with break ups with girls by moving on to other girls. It's what they use to distract themselves.
I wish I had a better answer for you, but basically you need something to distract yourself. Don't spend time alone in your own head. Get busy. Hang out with friends and family. Find activities to do. At school, pretend he doesn't exist. Not only will you feel better, but it might drive him crazy. And in a few weeks or a few months, you won't care what he thinks.
And Anita, if you are really feeling suicidal, talk to someone. I had 2 friends attempt suicide, and I thought about it as well, but luckily we made it out. Now they're both married to someone that loves them, and one has a child. And I'm engaged now, and... I didn't think it would ever happen. But it did. Look at it this way: are all your life experiences worth losing over a break up? Think about what you're good at, what you want to do with your life and after school, and focus and work on that. Ok? It works.
this is what happened to me too.. but luckily i cudnt see hm every day.. becuz he lives 80 kilometers awy frm me.. bt anyhow i felt rather dstrbd and hurt while i see his name in facebook and all.. i always used to think of him.. i cudnt cum out of it.. ntng can do anythng bt tym.. as tym wnt on i frgot abt him.. it took mnths fr me to frgt hm.. bt nw im ok.. this happened last year.. yu better focus on any other work or find another boy who wl love with all his heart..
Goodluck dear..:)
I know it's hurt my dear, but there is always an end to your burden. First thing to do is love yourself, erase all the negative thinking always positive, and the rest will follow. I know it's hard but you can be a strong person if you will face your problem. Losing him doesn't mean that your nothing anymore. There's something inside you so let it show. Don't be afraid let the world see it. Be friend to other even to your ex that's the time you will know how was your feeling towards him....move on there's something headed on you...Study hard, take care of your self, make that experience to be come a better and a strong person.Don't forget to pray. It added a strength in you.
but he is my partner !!! how can i ignore him ?? i cant live without him :'(