How does your job affect your personal goals?

Say you want to be the first man to go to Jupiter, but you have so much work in the office you can't build the rocket, either it will be delayed or you may never accomplish the goal, I know this example sucked but whatever, at least I gave u one, oh and also, can u and the other people who read this answer my question, " How to get a girl to like you when to her you don't exist." thanks.