Okay, a guy likes me and i guess i like him back. he told me he liked me through texting and I admitted my feelings to him to thinking i could actually go out with a guy. We have alot in common and when i text him i feel that classic butterfly shit but when i hang out with him at one point i felt nothing. So i freaked out as he told me i was sweet in spainsh and i quickly texted him that i wasn't ready for anything and now i'm having second thoughts. I don't know what to do i never thought ofa guy likeing me till now and i can't figure out if i'm ready for a relationship or not ether. I know what people say about waiting for the right moment and that's actually what i thought but i get along with him really well and i just dk what to do can someone help?
How do you tell your ready for a relationship?
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- 3+ months ago by Invisible...
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- ready, feeling, back, guys, relationship, guy, texting, relationships
Added 3+ months ago:
I'm also 15 and i also been thinking about staying with my idea of just being friends, sorry if it dosen't make much sense.
Answers (1)
I'm wondering if you get the 'butterflies" when you text and less so when speaking face to face because the two of you can be more honest with each other without the fear of what your friends, whom I am sure would be around the two of you at school, will say to you two. Whether it be judgement or disapproval by your friends.
If you two both feel as though you want to go out, why not? If you are not sure, perhaps you need to think what's holding you back. If there is something specific, then you would need work out if this is a deal-breaker for you, or you can live with it. If you are just nervous, don't worry, everyone has nerves these feelings, they will go once you tell him and know where you both stand.
Hope it helps.