How do you tell a woman, who's very needy and obsessive about you, that you're not into her?

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We started hanging out earlier this summer. I tried to friend-zone her, but when we were sitting watching a movie one night. She's next to me and we're hanging out, and I could see thru my peripherals she turn her head and her face was like right there, and didn't move... so I caved.. and it's kinda wound me up here.

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You need to be honest without being mean-- tell her that you don't really have romantic feelings for her without using the words "needy", "obsessive", or any words similar that she could take offensively. Be quick- don't drag it out and make excuses. It'll be better for both of you.

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Be very clear and to the point, but not too harsh. Maybe "I enjoy your company as a friend but i'm not interested in perusing a romantic relationship with you." none of the "im just not looking for a relationship right now" bullshit because if you do end up in one she'll be very hurt

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Politely, honestly. and quickly.

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it could be just as easy to come out and tell her that you aren't interested in or ready for a relationship but we could be friends I would like that better you got to be honest with her cause it will keep her hanging on if you don't its much easier to just tell it

How do you tell a woman, who's very needy and obsessive about you, that you're not into her?

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