A friend who had attended our wedding has recently invited only me in 3 of her functions, a pre wedding function, the marriage ceremony and the reception. I was very offended, but I sent her an email in which I politely responded that I would love to attend her wedding but don't feel comfortable without my husband. She replied back and said that my husband can attend the pre wedding function and the marriage ceremony. A wedding reception is much more important and big than 100 pre wedding functions. I don't think she really got my point nor my politeness. I don't want to offend her or anything but cant think of a nice response either.
What would be your response in this kind of situation?
How do you respond to a wedding invitation in which your husband or wife is not invited?
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- 3+ months ago by freelancer
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- ceremony, friend, wedding, marriage, wife, husband, invitation, friends
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I believe your friend is not understanding your feelings. People should thinking when having a wedding or hosting events as a couple being one. They should consider both of you when creating seating or looking at numbers on which they can afford to invite. If this person and your husband have had a falling out maybe it is best he doesnt attend. BVut other than that it is very rude not to invite the significant other to an event. If you've already discussed this with her and she refuses then i would just not attend.