I've been texting with this guy for 10 months and we only met up like 4 times. recently when we met up he asked me to be his GF and I said ok so we meet up more regularly. but the whole time I've known him its always been really awkward with long silences and stuff but i thought that would go with time, but it hasn't. i kind of feel that maybe he likes the idea of having a girlfriend and less who it actually is, when we kiss theres no spark and he really shy and indecisive, whenever we plan to meet up he'll never decide what we can do together so we walk around bored, but when he asks me what i want to do i make suggestions and he shuts them down saying "he's not really into that". I think i should break up with him but we've known each other a while and have mutual friends. should i break up with him? and if so how?
How do you know when to end the relationship ?
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- 3+ months ago by katiebear17
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- guys, ends, relationship, month, time, guy, texting, relationships
Answers (3)
Well you could take the bull by the horn and teach him what it actually is like to have a girl friend that doesn't work then tell him your relationship is going no where. You don't think its gonna work the relationship is going no where and your not doing this any more.
I think that you should tell him straight up that this relationship isn't going well and see if you guys can work together to try to talk it out in how to make the relationship work. If he still isn't trying to change the direction it's going then I guess there's no point in trying to save the relationship.
The way I look at it is life is too short not to be with someone you love. Of course love takes time and continues to grow but it you have been talking to him for this long and still see no sparks then we is not the one for you. The two who answered above have great advice for you but take it from my mistake that was made twice, you can't make someone the one your supposed to be with, when you meet the ONE you will know. As for how to let it down easy I would be honest with him men need honesty as much as woman do he may feel the same way you do but not want to say anything. Explain to him that you guys really are better off being friends and if things are meant to work between the two of you down the road then great but until then it's time to move on.