i'm alex(14) and i live with my cousin jody(18). Since my parents left india to work abroad i've been sharing her apartment which she owns. I swear she's the toughest girl i'd ever seen and will ever see. Though she is nice to people whom she loves she torments those whom she hates and i'm one of them. Ever since i broke her favorite crystal vase she's been mean to me.
she cusses me, abuses me sometimes(whenever she's mad at anyone/anything) and humiliates me in front of her friends. i tried talking with her about how she hurts my feelings but she's like " i dont know why i just f'ing hate u, just stop complaining and man up for god's sake!!". is that even possible to hate someone for no reason? pls help!!!
How do you get your cousin to stop being super mean to you?
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I don't think she hates you, she hates what you do and your personality. Instead of being sorry, cuss back at her. If she hits you, hit her back. Not hard of course.
Girls like her take advatage of weaker people to make themselves feel more dominant and express their rage.
I don't think she hates you, she hates what you do and your personality. Instead of being sorry, cuss back at her. If she hits you, hit her back. Not hard of course.
Girls like her take advatage of weaker people to make themselves feel more dominant and express their rage.
I don't think she hates you, she hates what you do and your personality. Instead of being sorry, cuss back at her. If she hits you, hit her back. Not hard of course.
Girls like her take advatage of weaker people to make themselves feel more dominant and express their rage.
Don't spill gasoline to a fire coz' it makes the fire bigger. It means don't retaliate bad acts towards a bad actions also.
>>Don’t react. “Bullies want to know that they’ve succeeded in making you feel bad about yourself,” says a young woman named Kylie. “If you don’t react, they lose interest.” The Bible says: “He that is wise keeps it calm to the last.”—Proverbs 29:11.
>>Don’t retaliate. Revenge will add to the problem, not solve it. The Bible says: “Return evil for evil to no one.”—Romans 12:17; Proverbs 24:19.
>>Don’t walk into trouble. To the extent possible, avoid people and situations where bullying may occur.—Proverbs 22:3.
>>Try an unexpected response. The Bible says: “An answer, when mild, turns away rage.”—Proverbs 15:1.
>>Use humor. For example, if a bully asserts that you’re overweight, you could simply shrug your shoulders and say, “I guess I could lose a few pounds!”
>>Walk away. “Silence shows that you are mature and that you are stronger than the person harassing you,” says 19-year-old Nora. “It demonstrates self-control—something the bully doesn’t have.”
>>Work on your self-confidence. “Bullies notice when you aren’t relaxed,” says a girl named Rita, “and they might use that to destroy whatever self-confidence you have.”
>>Tell someone. According to one survey, more than half of all victims who are bullied online don’t report what’s going on, possibly because of shame (especially for boys) or fear of retaliation. But remember, bullies thrive on secrecy. Speaking up can be the first step to ending the nightmare.
I like your idea. Wish you the best to settle this situation.
Sometimes yes i think it is best if you will talk to your parents about it then maybe they can move you to a more better place where you can live even just a few meters away from your cousin so, you will not be under her authority and you don't need to suffer from her misbehavior
I think you should move away to another house from her, or I think you should ignore her I have cousin like yours but she doesn't bully me or something she just hates me and she doesn't want my other aunt which is her aunt to be close with us she is jealous of me too because her parents used to tell her that I am a good child so I think you should ignore her like how I did and if she says something mean to you tell her something nice and that makes you stronger because I think the good way to solve problems is to do nice things and not mean I wish you the best and I hope one day your cousin will stop doing mean things and I hope one day my cousin will stop too
i appreciate ur suggestions but the thing is she aint a normal bully like others. but yeah i'm gonna start ignoring her like u said. maybe i should try and be nice to her perhaps, like u know buy her something.