There's this girl and months ago we got told to take care of her and show her around because she was new at the time, but now she is literally stuck to me and one of my closest friends and we have to literally pretend we are her friends and we are not happy with this situation. We just got told to confront her about it and tell her how we feel but we are both scared to do this and we told teachers to help but they didn't do ANYTHING. This girl is literally pushes me and shoves me out the way to get to my friend and talk to her and my friend doesn't like that. We even talked about it and we both think that she is trying to get in between us. Its just making me feel depressed and i sometimes cry at home about that nothing has help this situation, I even told my parents. Is there any way to make her stop following us ASAP?
How do you get someone to stop following you?
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But we did have a talk with our tutor and she asked us if we didn't want her to be around us and we remained silent because we are socially akward, I wish we said yes.
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First of all ,you need to work on yourselves, both you and your friend.
You said it yourself your socially awkward. Try to be more sociable and self -confident,get to know new people and interact,widen your spectrum,try to understand how some people act,and why we can't be selfconcious all the time, learn how opposites attract,and how freinds are friends.
Once you understand yourself and others,go confront,tell and show her what you discovered about yourself and others,Make her understand.
Once she understands, she'll know and let u go.