I just asked someone out and she said no and now i can't stop thinking about it. I have a tendency to obsess about any mistake that I have made and this was a huge one, I need a way to stop thinking about it.
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Go up to her and say 'hey I'm sorry about the other day my friend bet me money I wouldn't ask you out,but I can't turn down the money ha'
Say it convincingly. This will make her feel like a joke and that u just made money off the girl who turned u down. You yourself will feel good cause u just shut up the girl that shut u down. It's flawless if done correctly. And here's the kicker...you can lie about as much as you want.
Be warned sometimes she will ask who your friend is that made the bet ...(think of someone she hasn't met before) also she may ask why the bet was made (what kind of bet is that?) you then reply a good one I made money by asking u a question and walk away.
The whole point of this is to shut her down. Completely put a wall in front of her and you walk away when your done saying what u need. ****has to be convincing!***
One time i got that way {lol}, here is what i found out. For me, to get rid of a crush is to start a whole different crush. Try that. If it doesnt work.. Do it the old fasion way... Look at things that your chrush does and you dont like! Then you wont like her anymore.
Awww thats so sweet, why dont u tell her how u feel about her. Maybe that will win her over. :)
don't you think it would be weird if I said that after she already said no? and I don't think I could do it, it was so hard to ask her out.
Well ... Hmm. Do something nice for her and maybe it will make her think twice. Like buy her lunch, or a snack, or a friendship bracelet :) if you still need help messge me
What if she is perfect and amazing and I really think we would be perfect together. But she said no so I just want to forget about her, I really really just can't get her off my mind. Everything makes me think about her but I really want to move on but I can't. And again she is perfect so no one else even comes close to her.