I like a girl and I do not know how to get her to like me. Can somebody give me an answer that is 300,000% reliable, oh and a lot of people know, but they sort of stopped bothering me.
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I'm in fifth grade and being a girl so i know what most girls would like
1. become her friend
2. gain her trust (i would tell my friend anything if i trust them)
3. don't be complicated be yourself
4. don't change who you are for the girl it makes you seem desprate
5. hang out with her at school
6. get enough courage to tell her you like her ( this step could take some time)
so. i like 2 people. i told one i like her and she punched me. and she doesn't talk to me. the other girl i am trying lots of ways to get her to like me. a few of my friends think she likes them. also a website said i should play a game that requires touching. so now i play tag with her at break so she is comfortable with that. i need major advice. email your ideas to me on office 365. i am luke and my email me at vance,luke. i am 5th grade
Fifth grade is a little early for long-term romance. However, if you fancy a girl and would like simple dates together, or just to form a really good friendship, here are some ideas to help you encourage a girl to like you enough to want to spend time with you.
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Having the Right Attitude
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Be friendship-minded and easy-paced. Girls don't like guys who spend all their time on getting a girl, they might suspect a "player" rather than good friendship material. Also, don't be whiny or a crybaby because girls don't want to be friends with people who just sit around and whine.
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Be funny. Humor is an attractive trait for any person and it helps ease tension and awkwardness.[1] It can also reassure a girl that you're not being overly confident and self-inflated.
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Be yourself. Don't try to be sporty, geeky, hipster, etc. if you're not. On the other hand, be as much of the person you really are so that she accepts you as yourself. Always be polite though––just because you like gross humor or practical jokes doesn't mean she deserves to be on the receiving end of those. Use your common sense––making friends requires holding back on being silly, rude or just plain dumb.[2]
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Respect the worries and concerns the girl likely has. She is no different from you in worrying about being rejected, ignored or made fun of. Reassure her that you don't intend to do any of that to her and she'll be glad to spend time with you.
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Getting to Know the Girl Better
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Choose a girl who knows you just a little already. It is almost impossible to get a girl to like you when you're not in her homeroom. Try someone who is in your homeroom, to make things easier.
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Ask to hang out with her at recess, or sit with her at lunch and bring up a conversation. It's always best to be friends first, and after you take it slow, then you can tell her you like her, or ask her out if both of you are allowed to date or not.
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Walk home with her. Ask her where she lives and walk home with her. She will like the company.
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Try emailing her or giving her a phone call. She will probably appreciate the fact that you would like to know her better.
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Try to get her friends to like you too. If her friends have a negative opinion of you, she might think it's true. It's best to get to know her friends as well. If she does not have friends, be her friend.
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Let her feel comfortable around you. She will grow to consider you a safe person to be around and will want to be friends with you.[3]
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Adding a Little Romance (Optional)
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Make sure she's the right one before deciding to become romantic with her. Realize that at your age, friendship is more realistic and that if you are romantic together, it most likely won't last and you might lose her friendship for good if that happens.[4]
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Don't jump into kissing. You guys have only known each other this way for less than a year. Give yourselves some time before you kiss, if at all. This part really isn't necessary and you might prefer just being good, solid friends.[5]
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Tips
Don't act desperate if she resists any of your attempts.
Whenever she is feeling bad, be one of the very first people to talk to her. That will let her know that you are there for her.
Never try to come between the girl you like and her boyfriend.
Don't be annoying and try to find a common interest which you both have.
You could always tell one of your other friends that you like her/him, and they might give you some advice.
Building a positive relationship with someone, regardless of age or gender, is based on mutual respect, kindness, and genuine interest in each other. Here are some general tips on how to connect with a fifth-grade girl:
Be Respectful and Kind: Treat her with respect, kindness, and empathy. Show interest in her thoughts, feelings, and opinions.
Be Yourself: Authenticity is key. Be genuine and true to yourself rather than trying to be someone you're not.
Listen Actively: Pay attention to what she says and show genuine interest in her stories, interests, and experiences. Listening actively demonstrates that you value her thoughts and opinions.
Find Common Interests: Discover shared interests or activities that you both enjoy. Whether it's playing a game, discussing books, or doing a craft, finding common ground can help build a connection.
Be Friendly and Approachable: Approach her with a friendly attitude and a warm smile. Being approachable can help her feel comfortable around you.
Respect Boundaries: Respect her personal space and boundaries. If she seems uncomfortable or uninterested, give her space and don't push for interaction.
Show Kindness and Helpfulness: Small acts of kindness, such as offering to help with schoolwork or being there when she needs support, can go a long way in building a positive connection.
Be Patient: Building a friendship takes time. Be patient and allow the relationship to develop naturally.
Remember, the goal is to build a genuine friendship based on mutual respect and shared interests. It's essential to prioritize her feelings and comfort level throughout the process.
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if the girl i like is excited when she sees me after school, is that a good sign. im a 5th grader by the way