MY dad just recently past away and my stepmom , who I never had a great relationship with is asking me to have my husband go to her house to help her do some house repairs. She lives in Las Vegas and we live in California. I told her we do not have the money but she has asked my half sister to pay for his trip. She is only asking for like 3 days but Still my husband has to work to pay for the Dui classes that he just signed up for. The classes are for 3 days a week and he can not miss them. My husband does have a lot going on. Plus I do not trust my husband at all. How should t tell my step mom?