so i've like this girl for a lil over a year and i really want to talk to her because her and her ex broke up a few months ago. a part of me is telling me not to do it and the other part of me is going 'yolo'. i planned on just saying something like 'hey had a crush on you the past year, you're beautiful and seem like a real cool person to hang out with' but i've read that you don't want to just flat out tell them that. any advice??