She is there every Sunday. I've run into her a few times outside of church, but have never said anything to her. She goes to a different school, but I went through confirmation with her. I feel like it will be awkward to pull her aside in such a public place. Any tips?
How do I talk to a girl I like at church that I have never spoken to before?
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- 3+ months ago by 7ate9
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- church, school, girl, sunday, outside, love, talk, schools, girls, time
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I get your points and I agree, but the real hurdle here is that every time she is at church she is always with her parents and never really leaves them. I don't know how to pull her aside and talk to her without her parents noticing or having a fit... I need a good strategy. We don't live in the same city, so she and I haven't (and won't) run into each other outside of church except once or twice. Help!
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If you really want to talk to her, you're only option is to do so. Unless she talks to you first. But girls really like guys to be straight forward, so just walk up to her and talk to her. Say hey, introduce yourself and mention that you guys did confirmation together to strike up conversation. It'll be fine
cupcake is right, it's best to just roll the dice and talk to her. If there's anything you two have in common, talk about it, confirmation is one of them. It could also be many other things, like art, dancing or music etc. The worst that could happen is her saying she's not interested.
I would suggest that you walk up and talk to her one day at church, if you are afraid to talk to her by yourself bring a friend with you probably one more talkative would be good. Just say hello I doubt that she will be rude or anything, and once you've talked to her the first time it will be easier. I say that after you have been talking to her for at least three weeks, ask for her number so that you can talk to her on a more consistent basis try and get a feel for who she is and go from there!
Most importantly be yourself and have confidence in yourself and don't be nervous just go for it! ask yourself what is the worst that could happen? also think about how you would feel if you didn't try, 20 years from now do you want to sitting around wondering what might have been or do you want to know what is?
anyway sorry this is so long and hope this helps :)