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I like him alot ! He tells me his girlfriend flirts with other boys so I help him deal with that. Then once they are fine I kind of wished I didn't help because deep down I really want him ! Im also not friends with his girlfriend but I do talk to her here and there. What is the best thing to do.
-High School Girl
Its plain and simple Be there for him. Be the one whose always there when he needs you. Support his desicions and above all become his best friend... in no way shape or form try to steal him or stalk him. Just be his friend and it all works out in the end. (I promise... coming from personal experience)
O.k, if you just want to hide from him that you like him then behave to him as you would one of your other friends.(this also works to get him more comfortable around you)
If he's sad about his girlfriend flirting with other's than say your there for him and give him a hug or hold his hand.
This might sound a bit stupid but slowly and CAREFULLY hint to him that if she's flirting with other's, she probably doesn't give a damn about him. This is a very risky move to make, if you do this right, he'll break up with her and be free for you to move in. But don't rush into trying to go out with him after. On the other hand.... if you do this wrong he will probably never look you in the eye again, ever. He'll tell all his friends that your a b**ch, then they will tell their their's and so on until your next 2 years are ruined.ONLY use this as a LAST resort!
By the way, I'm a guy. Hope this help's!
I am also a girl in high school and I am a girl that has boys running to me I think the best thing to do is hang out with him all the time and try to go a little physical like play with his hair and touch his shoulder while your talking stuff like that and I totes think that if he doesn't notice u after that try to get him jealous with another boy
