My partner has been very emotionally and verbally abusive over the years. They have also lied a great deal. I ought to call it off but we are still trying to make it work. Only thing is, I need to know if I can trust this person now that they are claiming things will be different. Please help. I want to know to let go of the past so that we can have a future or I want to know its time to let go of them so I can move on and begin to heal. Please dont judge, you don't what it's been like. I appreciate your help.