We were friends with this girl and I started to notice that she was starting to make problems in our relationship. she would pick fights with my boyfriend and when I would ask him about it, he would show me the texts and I would then realize she was just starting problems. I have told her we are no longer friends and then I had blocked her from social networking sites that I use, cell phone/s and our house phone. But she seems to not get the hint that we do not want contact with her. What do I do? she says she just wants to talk things out but we do not wish to do that.. After all of this she ended up getting a job in my hometown when she lives pretty far from where we live.. I do not know what to do to make her stop and it is very stressful..
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Explain calmly and objectively the reasons why you don't wish to be friends anymore. Then promptly ignore her. But be respectful. Being angry or agitated will only excite her, whether by her enjoying the drama or her angry at you for your treatment of her. Hope that helps