I love a girl for 4 years but we had been friends for 5 years we have been smsing for the pass 3 years and we hang out a few times.until a few weeks ago after i confess to her she stopped sms me and i was sad.i asked her if she like someone else and she told.me yes.she told me that because of long term friend so stay as friend. But now i dont feel like she treating me as friend.i couldnt control my self from being sad and thinking negatively .but im trying to control.(sorry my english are not good)Everytime when i sat on bus early in the morning i keep looking for her although shes not there but sometime she is. I keep feel like jealous whenever i knew she is smsing other ppl because i can see
that from whatsapp the last seen was after i sms her timing and she did not reply i have been feeling irratated and frustrated for the past 3 to 4 weeks im hoping that i could give up but its hard someone please help me :( give me some advice (Sorry for bad english):'(
How do I get over the person I love so much?
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- 3+ months ago by hopingdre...
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- girl, person, friend, love, over, week, year, hang, girls, friends, years, time
Responses (4)
I told ths in my before answer that times heal the wound,i mean that she had clearly told u she likes someone els,due to this u have fallen in great depression,i know u know dat but the main reason is this.Ur jealous because u feel jealous,u should move on as she said u dat clearly she don't like u,i know this is difficult but u have to do this for urself,the things which make u feel sad r the reasons u check her sms,& waiting for her,u should have to stop this bcaus it will just hut ur heart from moving no.u just needs time. I suggest u to make new friend,so with help of her u can forget ur past & can be happy in present.
I see 'getting over someone' a natural part of life. Some people can deal with it very well and are able to just swallow the pain and get on whilst others seem to struggle to let go, a bit like yourself. I might be wrong but to me you seem desperate, before you start on the defense I am aware that you say that you loved her and that you was her friend for 5 years but I wonder if you actually did 'love' her so to speak or you just really enjoyed her company. This is because ( to me ) you seem kind of controlling by saying you are jealous when you know that she is speaking to other people and that you can see that and it seems like you just want her all to yourself. Again I come back to my point of wondering is that 'love' or is that you wanting her all to yourself as a friend? I probably sound all sour saying this but I only suggested this because I was once in a similar situation where I thought I really did like someone but then after being away from them over time I realized that I just missed their company and that is what was making me feel upset.
I'm not saying that I am right because you might actually love her and I might just be molding my situation onto yours. Anyway I hope this helped and I think eventually you will just get over it anyway, even if it is always on your mind. It may even be like when someone close to you passes on, not so dramatic obviously but most people get over loss don't they? Despite it always being on their mind.
well I'm not to sure this could work it's self out cause she kinda hurt you I would think she is trying to stay away from the areas she use to see her at it sounds like you may need to remember the good times it doesn't sound real fair that she doesn't allow you to be a friend cause she isn't texting you I would just bare with the situation mabe she will change her mind one day
I keep wanted to just dont care about it but whenever i see on facebook she post something it will keep reminding me i just dont care haiz i dont know what to do i found lots of advice go out i played basketball with friend swimming .etc but i just cant forget about it.i will always check my phone when someone msg me and when its not her i will feel angry.....