... times we have people say "Are you going out?'" or "Hey! Do you like him/her?" And sometimes when we are talking we sort of have a connection between us. Not only that but my friend made me ask him out (It's a game) and he said "I don't know..." and I'm pretty sure that that is enough information that he might have a thing for me. BUT of course there’s a bump in the road! We are still in school; me and him have all of our classes together. We are now in P.E. and we have to do a pacer test. (Running) JUST before we start one of my girlfriends come up to me and says: "Guess what?!" SHE TELLS ME SHES GOING OUT WITH HIM!!! I couldn't believe it! I wasn't mad at her or anything! I just kept telling myself "It's okay. it won't last long" but then after P.E. we went to wood shop. We were waiting for the last class to come out when i see my guy friend talking to another one of my girlfriends. So later i ask her what they were talking about and she said “A guy told him to ask Diana (My friend) out but he didn't want to, he said whatever..." And so, that is where i am. i love him but he is going out with my friend who loves him to but he doesn’t have mutual feelings for her. I don't want to hurt her, but i don't want either of them finding out my true feelings for the guy. AND if i do nothing i end up hurting myself by watching them. I need desperate help!!!
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It seems like all relationships have a triangle attached. If you have patience, remain friends with all, and subtly make him at least aware of your feelings for him. If he responds to you, that's wonderful, and perhaps you retain your other friend, except in situations like this people can be rather fickle. And remember this about men, unless they're just predators, we always point ourselves to THE woman we're attracted to. We can be in love without ever speaking to THAT girl or woman, but after we get over our fear of rejection, we always find a way. Best wishes! Sometimes men need a little jump-start.
Well whatever is going on between him and his current "girlfriend" is in between him and the girl. Guys are not always open to others when talking about their feelings about the person they're dating and may brush them off to others. Be graceful and do not get involved in their relationship.
Now on to you and him: there are two things you should learn at your young age and forever more. 1) If a guy is with someone else, he is unavailable. Period. Move on. 2) He is not interested in going out with you. You asked him and his answer was no. He didn't have to say "no". He said "I don't know." But anything other than a resounding "yes" in the dating world is a NO. Know that this is true.
I'm sorry as when you're in a crush it seems so real and encompassing. But you will find another guy that you really like, even better. So go out and have fun, talk to lots of boys, check out the available ones, have fun, and this will definitely pass. You'll be fine.
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Thanks.... i hope i can get through this....