Hi I'm 11 and I have a major crush on this boy in my class I've liked him for 2 years now and we are pretty good friends, even though I like him I have helped him out in 2 relation ships already , we get along really well. But I don't know how to ask him because he hasn't made a move yet so I thought I could. We have been in the friend zone a year to long and I WANT OUT!!!! I really like him and I need help, he sits next to me so I don't want to want to get rejected because that will cost me a friend and an awkward rest of the year, so I have 2 options 1 I can take the chance and possibly have an awkward end of 5 grade or I can ask him to the school pool party or I can ask him on the last day of school through year book this would be okay because I have his email and I could get his number. I'm really confused and need help from all you guys out there.
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Well sweetie u cant get him to like u if he doesnt already. I know u dont want to hear this and im sure evrryone tells u this but its true sweetheart. Im sure if he rejects u he will let u down kindly. And maybe he will say yes! I say u take the chance and if he rejects u so what who cares what he thinks? Go get him tiger!
Sorry, but if you helped him through 2 relationships already, then you aren't just in the friend zone, but in the shoulder to lean on friend zone. If you ask him out then he'll think that all those times you helped him, you were really just trying to get what you wanted. Plus it will be very hard for him to adjust. Also, he's experienced girls before, so it will be harder for you to get him. However, if you wanted to go forward with it, then it will take some more effort. I would post how to do it here, but that would take too much time, so you can check my other answers to get the details.
Coming from a 6th grader.
Hope I helped.