Okay, well I really like a guy I'm only in one of his classes :( anyway we used to talk only online because well, I'm shy and fridget! Well what i want to know is how can i get this boys attention without flashing myself swearing/cursing and the other thing is that can you explain how i can do this not just like, "talk to him" what do i talk about? oh my gosh he is so hot. HELP ME. because he has stopped talking to me online i think its cause he thinks he is wasting his time and I really like this guy, i need help with this. THANKSS!!
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Your going to have to stop being shy and fridget. It's the only way your gonna get thru this. Now, your gonna have to go up to him and talk to him. Wait till he's not around any one so all of his attention will be on you. Then, just be like hey whats up... And if he's really interested in you then he will begin a conversation. I't won't be hard to talk to him at all. Unless he's shy too. Then it will be complicating. Just ask him why y'all quit talking and stuff....
Those a both good answers. So if you can't even at all get the courage to talk to him first then you need to get him to notice you more. By like making sure your in places that he is at. Get somewhere where he can see you and let him know that your looking at him. Maybe the way you randomly look over at him and smile or by the way you look at him or you know stuff like that. If he actually likes you TRUUUUUSST me he will come up to you and talk to you. Then BAM there you go! Convo has began and he initiated it. Also try dressing nice and just look presentable if you know what I mean.. Now if none of these answers work at all then either he isn't interested or he is just really shy.
I can understand how you feel girl...Yup totally!
I think the be thing would be that he himself starts talking to you. You know boys and for that you must become noticeable by doing following things that I am about to tell you...
1. Always remember every girl is born pretty and we become prettier and attractive with confidence..You have to bring yourself out of your shell..Be confident.
2. Try and catch the guys attention at places other than class coz in class scope of face to face interaction is very limited as it is the only class in common between you guys.
3. When you get a chance to talk be confident and a little flirty ...Just little flirty so that guy gets the sign and if he is interested you will see him flirting back. You can compliment about the shirt or hair or shoes...But it must be a genuine compliment.
4. The most important..You must be you with that person..the best version of you ...Who is confident and loves the way she is.
All the best girl...I hope I was of some help to you :)
I know how you feel ha
ha.um i know your shy so one thing you could do is (im not going to lie,you are going to have to come out of comfort zone a bit....alot but if you really like him...it will be worth it) YOU HAVE TOO TALK TO HIM.I know it can be scary to just walk up and just start talking.Thats why i was thinking you could ask some people you can trust about his intrests and talk to people near him about one so that he can hear your covo with them and so he will come talk to YOU. But your best bet is to confess to him you like him.