How do I find love?

First you have to learn what love is. Most people think ... they don't know what they think, but they will make up something when asked. Some people think it is like a disease, you catch it and there's no cure. Some people think it's a euphemism for "Take off your pants."

Love is when you are aware of a need and you take care of it. For instance, nobody changes a diaper because they like baby's personality, they do it because baby needs it. Human needs ar air, water, food, clothing/shelter, and companionship. If a person does not get all five of those they will either die or become very weird.

How to find love: you have to earn it. That seems strange, but that's what it amounts to. You might find the love of your life but you don't know how to carry on a conversation, so he doesn't want to hang around with you. Take acting classes. Go to a church on Wednesday evening. (You don't have to believe anything. Every church has something different, so if you don't like one you can go to another.) Don't tell people your problems, just say you heard you could meet some nice people.

Sometimes the love of your life is right under your nose. How do I find the love of my life?" Just look around and be open to any girl../boy who likes you :)Stop looking and she will find you. If you look for it you won't find it. you are more likely to find a partner in life by working on improving your attitude toward yourself, love, dating, and relationships. Resist the temptation to find your soulmate by leaving it to the fates: improve yourself and your dating strategies in order to increase the likelihood of finding your lover.Enjoy being single. It may seem counterintuitive, but it is important that you are happy and confident as a single person before you are ready to find your soulmate. Relationships will last longer if both partners are healthy, stable, and confident in themselves. If you want to find your soulmate--and if you want your ideal partner to be equally attracted to you--you have to know who you are, what you want, and like yourself.