How do I explain this... when looking at my current "Friendships" to me it s all superficial and I don t really care for them. I don t feel anger or joy. Every time I smile/laugh is because the situation warrants it. But inside I don t feel anything. I m only talking about not feeling anything for friendships/relationships. When it comes to a personal matter like defending myself and my ideals, I will get worked up, so I do show a capacity to feel emotion. I just don t feel emotion for other people. So how do I get myself to feel something for other people?