My mom is a Christian--the type that gives the religion its bad reputation--and she is the most self-righteous, spiteful person I've ever known. She lies, she's nosy, and she throws fits if everything doesn't go as SHE planned. I used to avidly attend church with my family, I used to be on a worship team, but since I started dating a very loving, trustworthy, accepting guy from my school who happens to be an atheist, my mom, and the church, went batshit.
My mom started off lecturing me about the dangers of my boyfriend Marcus. I thought she was just doing the parenting thing, but as 7 months went by and my relationship with Marcus got more serious, I slowly realized my mom was never accepting of Marcus and she had always wanted for us to break up.
It's never been worse between my mom and I than in these last two weeks. Marcus and I had decided to give each other our virginities and my mom f*cking got on my Facebook and found out about us.
My mom's reaction initially didn't add up to how I thought she'd act to this news, given that she had my older sister's boyfriend arrested a few years ago when she found out they'd been f*cking. Naturally, I knew something wasn't right, and to my suspicion, she slowly got more and more insane.
It's ME and my BOYFRIEND's relationship. It is not a triangle that includes my mom. She's obsessed with us and it's sickening. She even tried getting my boyfriend's parents to participate in separating us, and now Marcus's parents are mad at HIM for having a girlfriend with a crazy mother. It's not only causing Marcus and I pain, it's ripping Marcus's family apart.
How do I stop it? How do I tell my mom she's the reason I've fallen back into depression and cutting myself? How dpi get her off of Marcus and his parents' backs? I'm so frustrated and depressed.