We were planning on starting to try for a baby next month due to when we want our baby due and based on my cycle, it's irregular. Unexpectedly I'm fertile now and most likely won't be again until the end of the July, which would push our original plans back a month. How do I ask him to consider trying now so our odds are higher of conceiving. I'm only fertile 4-5 times a year so the more try's we have the higher our odds are, obviously. He doesn't like surprises and the last thing I want is for him to reconsider this or feel great pressure to make such a big decision on a limb.
