I am a 10 year old girl and I was partners with this girl.So first,she was copying from my paper and was telling me I was stupid since I was not hurrying up.Then she was telling me that my handwriting was terrible and that I was ugly.I felt like crying.What should I do?
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Ok, so many people will tell you, ignore them or walk away.
But sometimes that not the case, if you want, ask her questions when a worksheet is handed to you and her to work as partners, so its equal, and, in my opinion, handwriting doesn't matter, if you think its good and readable, and your other friends do too, then that bully has terrible eyesight! And it doesn't matter how long you were taking, you were being SMART, its better to be a little slow, you can think more about your answers, so you get good grades, and what does "ugly" have to do with school work?! Bully's usually call other people ugly or names, to make themselves feel better! Just stand up for yourself! :)
Remember: If she walks like a bully, talks like a bully, and looks like a bully, she must be bully! -Weird saying my mom says.
1 Do not draw attention to yourself (e .g. try to act "cool", or do outrageous things), this makes it more satisfying for the bully to bring you down. 2 Do not fight back ! This is inevitably the worse thing you can do when dealing with bullies.This will create more repercussions, which is the last thing you want. 3 Don't talk to them . Leave them alone. Talking to them will give them a chance to be mean or disrespectful to you. 4 Don't react to the bully's ruderemarks . If he or she calls you names or bags you out, don't ignore him or her, just smile and walk off. You need to make sure that you do not express any distress or the bully will thrive offthis. 5 Bear in mind that if the bully has a group of friends that follow him or her, it's most likely they are his or her friends involuntarily . Try to make small talk with them when they are alone. Listen to them and be genuinely interested in what theyare saying. After all, the more people you have on your side thebetter. 6 Do not give them the attention they clearly want . Bullies want attention, as well as them being jealous, mad, disliked,and possibly insecure. Know that many, many people in this world think that the only reason why bullies act "that way" is because they are insecure about themselves. This could be true, and it could not be true. Either way, keep in mind that they wantattention. Don't tell the bully that they are insecure, follow these steps above and don't give them the attention they want. 7 Kill them with kindness . This means to say something nice"back to them" when they insult you. For example, if they make fun of your hair, which is probably the least they will do, tellthem that you like their hair as well. Whatever you do, be sure to stand up for yourself and others, but don't be mean. You will get introuble and keep in mind that it can easily backfire, no matter how much they do it and remain untouched. 8 Don't be scared of the bully . One of the reasons you may actually desire to avoid them is, yes, because of the bullying, but also because you may be scared of the bully. Realize that they are human, and there is not one reason to be scared of them, even if they are violent. If you are still scared, do not show them that
What can you do if you’re bullied?
>>Don’t react. “Bullies want to know that they’ve succeeded in making you feel bad about yourself,” says a young woman named Kylie. “If you don’t react, they lose interest.” The Bible says: “He that is wise keeps it calm to the last.”—Proverbs 29:11.
>>Don’t retaliate. Revenge will add to the problem, not solve it. The Bible says: “Return evil for evil to no one.”—Romans 12:17; Proverbs 24:19.
>>Don’t walk into trouble. To the extent possible, avoid people and situations where bullying may occur.—Proverbs 22:3.
>>Try an unexpected response. The Bible says: “An answer, when mild, turns away rage.”—Proverbs 15:1.
>>Use humor. For example, if a bully asserts that you’re overweight, you could simply shrug your shoulders and say, “I guess I could lose a few pounds!”
>>Walk away. “Silence shows that you are mature and that you are stronger than the person harassing you,” says 19-year-old Nora. “It demonstrates self-control—something the bully doesn’t have.”
>>Work on your self-confidence. “Bullies notice when you aren’t relaxed,” says a girl named Rita, “and they might use that to destroy whatever self-confidence you have.”
>>Tell someone. According to one survey, more than half of all victims who are bullied online don’t report what’s going on, possibly because of shame (especially for boys) or fear of retaliation. But remember, bullies thrive on secrecy. Speaking up can be the first step to ending the nightmare.
thank you 4 your great answer