Hi :) im 15, guy obviously im high school and there are 4 girls i like and i think a few of them like me back, but since im kinda shy at first i dunno how to approach and what to say to the girls i like, coz i barely talk to girls coz im shy coz i dnt ever know wat to say? Anyone got any tips on how i can either, get the girls to like me and talk to me, orhow to start a convo and wen to approach them. Wen i do talk or sit nxt to girls they seen to enjoy my company and like my personality and laugh alot , wat does this also mean?
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Well I used to be that way with guys I am to 15 an in high school. Just go up to them an say I like your shirt or say you look pretty today than smile and walk away but don't ignore them the rest of the day, glance up very one and awhile and smile at them. Trust me girls usually like that:)
I'm 14 and what I found that works is if you start a group with that girl in it. Get your friends and try make convo like kick the ball over and get her yo throw it back but DONT make it obvious if she throws it say like 'good throw' or stuff like that get her to confer with you just little things. In little doses.
I think you should focus on one girl at a time (Jeez, that sounds bad. I'm not calling you a man slut or anything lol. Nothing close. I'm just saying that you can't work on four girls at once. Pick the one who makes you feel the best. If it doesn't work out with her, you can always try another one. Ugh, this kind of sounds bad, but I mean it.) If you aren't already, become friends with her. I am just going to assume that you have dances at your school. It sounds cheesy, but I would try to ask her to the dance. Do it casually, more like "You wanna meet up at the dance," than "Do you wanna go to the dance with me." My advice is to slowly become closer to her. Being friends helps.
Whatever you do, respect them. Don't dtare at their bodies. Girls hate that. At least the ones with dignity. Trust me. I'm a high school girl so I know what I'm talking about. Compliment them. Offer to help them. Hold doors open. Be chivalrous but don't act like they are frail. Just be yourself. Girls hate frauds. Good luck!
A girl who cares
My best advice.....find the one that you can connect to most and just be there for her. I know it sounds weird, but no girls ever spoke to me, until, I listened when they needed to discuss their problems, and was always there to tell them a joke or something. The key is not thinking about it as finding "the girl". Just try and make a connection. This is very vague, which I did on purpose. You sound like, deep down, you know what to do, so do it. Good luck.