i used to get rapped alot. its consuall with some1 i love how do i not get scared how come i still do
How come I still get scared during sex?
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- 3+ months ago by hanaguine...
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- love, sex, scared
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I think you answered your own question. The problem is that you are in love and it's casual at the same time. It's conflicting with your wants and needs - this is not a good place to be, from personal experience it causes a lot of anxiety. My suggestion would be to either break it off and find someone who feels the same abt you or talk to your partner, who knows maybe he feels the same. Either way you need to resolve this for your own inner peace.
fuk i mean i say its me not her
I think she was saying "consensual," not "casual."
you are not a retard, you are just healing! Tell your partner how you feel, try to help her understand if it is difficult. It's not her fault, it's not your fault, this is just something that might take time. I have been there. Once my boyfriend at the time had to sleep on the floor, but in the morning he got up and cuddled. He understood, try to help your partner or future partner understand too :)
i was raped from 6 to the age of 18 every single day and night. ever since then i have night mares or flashes in my head i can be with my boyfriend and he just hugs me and every thing comes back and he thinks i dont like him....so its going to take a long time to get over it.
Wildcat you were abuse from age 6 to 18, wow that's twelve years, nobody in your family could see any change in you as you were getting older. Your grades must have been like hell in school, none of your teachers could see what was happening to you ? Who was abusing you ?
i tied telling someone but they would allways say that i was dreaming and all i wanted was attention.....then i told my ap at school and she said we needed proof so they called my mom at home and asked her she said no it didnt happen...so when i got home...i will never forget that day 6 months ago...i just feel like i dont need to be here in this world anymore. i just need someone to talk to.
Wildcat are you still being abuse, who is doing or did this crime to you.
it was two different men at first it was my step dad and then it was this man my mom had staying with me when she went to work and when i get home.
no i thought about but im 18 now so they might not do anything...when i was little they told me they did those things because they love and thats what people who love you do but now i know
my partners acctualy a female lol um shes algood with it she knows except she thinks its her, but i say its her not me
i just feel like a fukn retard a.