I've been in numerous relationships. And they were all online. And when I'm not in a relationship. It puts me into deep depression. The only way to fix it is to be in a relationship. And its not just with someone in particular. I'm lovesick, because I'm in love with the idea of being in love itself. So much that when a relationship fails.its usually because I push them. Because I want a relationship IRL. And I can't find anyone IRL that I'm into. Im too young to go into bars yet. But will be in November. But I don't think the kind of people that I'd be into would show up in a bar. Especially since I'd be going to a gay bar. And my location isn't very lgbt friendly. And Im shy as hell and have fear of rejection. And I'm kind of at a loss as to how I would go about solving my problem. Like I've said I really want the idea of love itself in my life with someone I really like. But every time I try and do that online. I end up hurt. And it never seems to work out. Any suggestions?
How can you get over being lovesick. And not just with a person. I mean the idea of love itself?
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- 3+ months ago by Stevenshe...
- Topics:
- person, love, over, deep, depression, online, idea, relationship, relationships
Responses (3)
Get out more meet people work on your people skills. Talking on computer isn't real. Usually people just bored there and say anything. Not sure what websites you using. Maybe try find a website that best suited to your lifestyle interests and age group. If when you get old enough to go to bars night clubs. You may be surprised who you might meet there. It might come down to moving elsewhere. To get over your shyness just start talking to people. Anybody everyone. . Go to places that interest you. .
Perhaps your simply focusing too much on relationships. It's ok to just have friends and be single. It doesn't mean you're a loser, it just means you're currently happy without a bf/bf or gf/gf relationship. Instead of trying to fill the hole with lust, try filling it with a new hobby or some purely friend relationships -- they last a lot longer and they hurt a lot less. You can't fulfill this longing with online relationships that won't last. Just give it some time. It will be worth the while when you find someone that will make the hole in the ground into a mountain.