well its about our relationship and if anybody can help me out I would be thankfull. He is a womenizer,he speaks in front of me about other girls and I never said anything about it,I make myself like I m deff. and reacently I wanted to check him because if he is so much into wimen why in the world I would trust him,so I chated with him on fb introducing myself as some girl he doesnt know,so I asked him if he is single and he said yes,Imagine myself! Something broke in side of me and he dont know about it,so everytime when I want to hug him I feel so safe but when that thing comes to my mind I wanna throw up:( he did I lot of things for me but just this thing make me so mad that I cant trust him any more,but I love him and we barely even talk so I dont know how to make a conversation with him. we are so same,thinking aabout same things in same time,we have same personality so maybe that is a problem,I really dont know but what I know is that I need help..couse I cant bare any more with that:((
How can I trust my BF when he is telling other girls that he is single:(?
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- 3+ months ago by black-soul
- Topics:
- girl, single, trust, girls
Answers (2)
Glad things are starting to move in the right direction, remember to keep your head up,every one in a relationship deserves respect. (would like to know how things work out, if you don't mind) Best of luck.
Of course I dont mind but what you mean with "how things work out"...you mean to talk about good things in our relationship,or something else:))) thank you sooooo much you are interested in this:)) If I can help you just ask:))
"What i mean" about how things work out is, if the relationship takes a turn for the better, Or if for whatever reason it don't go as you would want it to i would like to know how you are doing.
I m getting nervous every time when he doesnt call me,is that ok? I ve never tould him about it,I dont know why..he is working till 5 or 6 p.m. and I do understand he is tired but sometimes he even didnt call me untill late at night or dont call or text at all. right now its 7:13 p.m. and I know he finished at 4:30 he didnt call me,is that ok? I dont call him too..he has complitely changed after he got a job. when we met each other he didnt have a job and he called me but now he is so diferent..I read the book about diferences between man and women and it says that sometimes its ok that your man get away from you because of himself,but he will come back just like before..is that true?
There is nothing wrong about getting nervous when some one you care about won't call or at lease text. He seems to know that you have strong feeling for him. Sometime we men act like ass's when we have a woman who is into us. Baby if he can't see what's he has, it his lost. Some one is gonna get what he didn't fight or try to keep.
hey chevey,well you told me to tell you how things are going and its going better..he changed I have no idea what happened but he is fine now...and I told him about checking thing on fb:)) and he was mad but he said that he act like that couse he kinda felt that someone is messing with him,and bla bla anyway I think I got this now...
Glad things are working out for the better, don't let your guard all the way down, relatesinships takes time and hard work as you well know, truly the best of luck, luck is not the right word, but you know what i mean. keep me informed.
thank you chevey,I was thinking about it too of course, but just after these things I mentioned in my question something good happened to us,and I think its kind of sign and Its hard to let him go...but yea you right:)