So I've really liked this guy for awhile now.hes a bit older than me by 3 years.im 16 and he's 19.hes also my dads best friend which makes it hard to hang with just him.anyways,I can't tell if he likes me too.i catch him looking at me sometimes and he'll smile and look away and when my dad is in the room hell confront me as if I looked first.sometimes when we get five minutes at most alone,he'll start a pillow fight.we bicker at each other a lot but we are nice to each other at the same time.if he asks me to make him some food or get him a drink I'm happy to and when I need something from the store he's happy to take me to get it.when we went on vacation with both our families to the beach,I'd catch him staring at me a lot(usually I'd wear clothes over my bikini but I didn't care at the time).i was walking around in the water and he was digging a hole with his buddies and I'd find him catching glances and then he started a mud fight with just him an I.usually when I catch him staring at me he'll start a staring contest and hell be the one to look away first smiling an then hell look back at me straight in the eyes and then look away smiling.
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If he's looking at you all the time, that's a good sign. When he does something, like how you said starting up a mud fight and he looks at you, it seems like he's seeking your approval, He wants to see if he's impressing you, if he likes you. Does he like to playfully hit you or brush your arm? Usually if a guy likes a girl (not shy guys), they can't really seem to stay away. They'll be constantly wanting to be by you or around you. Also pay attention to his friends, when you approach him with his friends do they all look at him like something's up and smile? Chances are if he likes you, his friends might know too. Then, if he treats you differently from other girls (not in a bad way), That's also a good indicator. Every guy is different though, some of these ideas mayn't apply but could. For more ideas on how guys act when they like someone, I know there's some good youtube videos out there. Maybe check some of them out.