I'm a girl and I maybe not be loose but I'm not a stranger to making love with a man I trust and care for. It has been a few times but it still hurts bad no matter the guys' size. I've been with only two guys in that way, one was average but thick and the other is rather big. I know that my body needs to readjust to him but we've been sexually active for three months and I hurt during and after most of the time. He used to sort of like my tightness but now I cry when he mentions sex because I'm afraid it will always hirt me. At this point we are both worried about it. Is there any good lubricant that might help? I know its not my birth control, it hurts with or without. I'm going to see a doctor but please give any help or ideas you can.