When I was younger ever male model in my life dissapointed me and hurt me! I worked through it and I moved on! I could never trust any form of male figure! Then I met this amazing guy, that I felt from the beginning I can trust, I felt safe, loved, everything I ever wanted to feel! Until I caught him lying to me! He was lying about a girl! It was the girl before me they didn't really date but they went to out together but nothing happend between them! I saw messages where he told her he missed her! I spoke to him about it, but he said it was as a friend! Yes he did like her etc etc but nothing came of it! This girl kept on sms emailing him and he just kept on hiding it from me! Every time I caught him he said no they not talking anymore but he lied! I really love him so much! About 9months ago he caught this girl lying about things that she said that I was doing for eg deleting him of her facebook and he realized that that she is trying to make nonsens in our relationship! Since then he hasn't talked to her! I'm just so hurt and broken I can't get myself to trust him 100% again! I really want to but I'm so scared of getting hurt again! I've lost myself! I miss being my happy, crazy, fun loving self! Can anyone please help me! :-( :-( :-( :-(
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Move on, there's life ahead of you. You shouldn't cry for that kind of guy. Your to young and you can find someone who will love you and will take good care of you for the rest of your life, just pray and believe to our Almighty God and He will give to you the man of your dream. For the meantime focus on your study or on your family, friends for you to have social life. Be happy!
im sorry but all i can is that crying will never get you any where. drowning in your own tears when there is so many things out there that you can do. a boy is some thing in life that are always lyers. i speak from experience. i went out with this guy and i found out that he was cheating on me with by bff, i asked im but he said they were frinds but i found them kissing the next day. i wanted to cry but, i thought hey my life will not get better by crying. yes iot hurts but life keeps coming and i know this as a fact. you will never find the perfect guy becse every one makes mistakes some greater than others and lying about it is just telling you that he really doesnt care about your feelings. but if he really loved you he would think of your feelings and the tears you drop because of him. dont think about it the perfect guy will come, but you have to wate. there are going to be regrets in your life but you learn from them
He's been stupid, we all do that. If you want to be with him, then be with him. Trust will return in time if you tell him now that the next time it will be all over for good.
Other people on here will tell you to move on, or that they have had a similar experience, but they are not you and their boyfriend wasn't the same as yours.
This girl tried to break you up, she flattered his ego and being a stupid male (like me) he fell for it, he has been hurt by this experience too, this other girl is going to succeed after all, if you think in time you can forgive him, then tell him he has to prove himself.
If you truly believe that there is no future with him then let him go and do move on, if you're not sure then take a bit off time to figure it out before committing to the relationship.
Remember, he is supposed to make you happy, if he can't then you have to move on and find someone who will.