Im a very commited person and I would do anything for my boyfriend. All I think about everyday is him. Its almost like ive put him before me (hes the priority) and that makes me vulnerable and the thought of losing him would ruin me. Weve been together for 3 years. Hes in the army so I dont see him that often.
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Well, it's understandable that you think of him everyday, he's in the army! Scary! With him being gone is a great opportunity for you to find out who you are. What your likes and dislikes are. I personally would give anything to have a little me time, and yes, not think about my man of 11 years, and still not married. You need in my opinion , to get out and have experiences. To do that, go to a gym. Go out with co-workers. If you don't have a job, get one, start a hobbie. Take walks, go out and try having lunch by yourself. Do fun things that expand your everyday routine. I recently took my son zip linning. When your man comes back maybe you both can do that together. The man more you get out and live, and experience the more you will also have to offer in opinions and conversations as well. Read books. Regarding losing him, I don't know your age, but if your young , not to worry, there are many fish in the sea. Doing some of the things I've commented on will also boost your self esteem and you sense of self. Hope that helps. Anja