I am 27 years old girl. I was abused and tortured by my brother wn I was little.I fear ppl now. My hand sweat, in a social get together I cant mix with ppl. Always keep shy and introvert. My mother in laws also abuse me but I can never defend it. My husband always gives me advice and blame for all things. After my marriage, I came to live in USA. She always cries and tells my husband to go back to her. I feel hostile with her attitude. My life feel to be fill with loneliness, depression. I have no friend. I feel I am dying slowly. I dont want to die. Plz help, Plz help, Plz help me.
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You are in America now, tell your mother in law to mind her own business.. ( Your husband needs to grow some balls )
I want to sand for myself. Help me to grow. I am new here. Don't know where I can find help. Plz help.
How long have you lived in America.
9months
Two problems are:
How to deal with my mother in laws?
How I can be social and get rid of fear of people?
I can't sleep last night and it seems nothing to my husband. He slept good. And went to office. Last night he called her. She started complainIng against me. My husband wanted me that I agree what she wants. I agreed with her that I am calling her less and I will make it better. She wants to know every little thing of mine. I hate it and feel like freedom less.
Who is your husband married to you or his mother, you have more power over him than you know. You are the one who sleeps with him , use your influence.
He used to torture me mentally (slang) and physically ( kicking, punching and slapping).
I lived in Bangladesh.
She always says I have not learned anything from my family and she will teach me now how to communicate. She keeps giving example of my husband that my husband need not to be taught because he was raised under her. I try to call her every other day in a week. But I feel helpless infront of her. As she put off the phone within short time. She tells my husband that why I dont call her ? Which is not true. So I thought to call her infront of him as much as I can. Than she started to complain why I don't call her in skype. She expalins that I don't like her thats y I don't want to see her. It is all about complaining all the time. My husband gifted me something when I came USA I brought them with me. But she complained to my husband why I didn't give that thing to my husband's sister. She also told me to wash clothes with hand. But my husband don't like that so I only wash my clothes not his. I never told my husband why I do this. He is a momma boy.